Bless you...your family has been through so much!!
It's no wonder you are feeling the effects of stress at the moment.
Let us know if you ended up going in to be checked out, and how that went...
...Or if you are back at home...try doing some of the coping skills from our Resources for relief. The 'Stress Relieving Exercises and the Positive Mantras/Affirmations links are a good place to start.
Check back what you can...and know you are in our thoughts.