Maybe you should talk to your coworker about
how they make you feel hon. Maybe that would help the situation and ease the tension a bit?
I got jelly legs and panic attacks when I had to work in my former office until I quit a couple months ago. I hated that job because everyone attacked me all the time for no good reason other than they were greedy and wanted more money to be made even tho I thought I was at my highest point of making money for that company.
If they would have eased up on me, I might have stayed, but I couldn't tolerate it anymore. I work for a new company and like it so much better.... the stress is gone as no one is on my butt all the time.
So that coworker arriving on the 'broomstick' or the 'chariot' somedays was my old boss, and I couldn't take it anymore.
So I left the company.
Hopefully you two can work it out but I couldn't personally handle the stress.
"Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars."
DX: Panic Disorder, Depression, TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder), Chronic Migraines
RX: Ativan/Lorazapam (1 MG a day), Lexapro (15 MG a day), Tylonel for the TMJ and Migraines