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Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 9
   Posted 11/4/2006 8:44 PM (GMT -6)   
hey everybody, I hope you all are doing well

Have any of you ever feel unsatified with everything around you. Like for example, Im remodeling my house but I everytime im look for funiture I just dont seem to like it or make a decision what syle I want. I Feel so conflicted inside, I just dont know who I am anymore. have any of you ever been through this? did it ever pass?

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Date Joined Jul 2006
Total Posts : 789
   Posted 11/4/2006 9:00 PM (GMT -6)   
Hello Evolution
Big Welcome to HW you will find a lot of careing and supporting members were so happy you have joinged us here.
I know exactly how you feel I sometimes have to step back and look at my life because I know in my heart I am a lot luckyer then some on here. I have great support from my family, my illness is not life threatening but still get that nothing is good enough for me. I hate this feeling and I never verbalize it. It's very hard for me to make any dessions on anything with out feling I made the wrong dission. But when it's all done I do find I'm happy with it so give it time and see the finished look.
Please keep us updated on how your doing and how the remodeling is going.
I have an illness, My illness don't have me.


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Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 47
   Posted 11/4/2006 9:29 PM (GMT -6)   
I don't really know for sure if this is neccesarily the same thing that you go through evolution, but I cannot deal with change of any sort. I am a 29 year old woman with PD. I cannot shop by myself hardly at all unless it is a very small store or I am with my husband. Recently I was having to hunt for a new job as we had moved. My husband took me (or I should say DRAGGED me) to the mall to buy some new clothes for an interview. I hated everything. All I wanted to do was GET OUT! My husband usually does all of my shopping for me if I need anything. He is rather good - he knows all my sizes to a tee - he knows how I prefer SOLID colors and strictly PLAIN clothes. I cannot seem to get over the idea of changing my taste to try anything different. I just feel weird. That is me and my PD! I hope you continue to post, I haven't seen you here b4 - but I wish you all the best in your fight! God bless... Idie
Now that we're here, so far away,
All the struggle we thought was in vain.
All the mistakes one life can take,
They all finally start to go away.
Now that we're here, so far away,
And I feel like I can face the day.
I can't believe that I'm not ashamed,
To be the person that I am today.  

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Date Joined Jan 2005
Total Posts : 24909
   Posted 11/6/2006 4:30 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi there and Welcome
I seem to be never satisfied with alot of decisions I make so I tend to do lists upon lists of the way I want things to be how I want them done ect .......
for me this tends to help me alot
Like Idie change is also a biggie for me and I am trying my best to learn coping methods to overcome that
Hope to see you post often
I m sure I have seen your posts in past but head a bit foggy this am so excuse me please
You take care and be well
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Date Joined Oct 2005
Total Posts : 2500
   Posted 11/6/2006 3:15 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey Evo,

I couldnt make a decision to save my life. It drives my bf coo coo. Personally I think for me it partially stems from my mom having made like all my decisions for me for the first like 23 yrs of my life. I still find myself asking my bf or someone else what they think I should do. Hang in there. Change kills me. I like things at a nice level familiar and known. Go outside that I am bound to flip. Hang in there. Hope it all works out.

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When everythings made to be broken, I just want you to know who I am..."
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Those who are the same keep it that way."

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