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   Posted 2/14/2007 10:06 AM (GMT -7)   
As I posted before, I told my hubby about what was going on with the pills. So, I'm a bit rocky there and stressed. I'm stressed about his ex having claimed our child deduction, which can and probably will, lower our return by $2000. She will probably win, as she usually does. I hate her with every fiber of my being. So I'm, stressing about that. I have an appointment with a lawyer today to see about filing for bankruptcy. I worked my a** of to get my credit back after I left my first husband. And now because of stupid decisions I made during manic and depressive moods (bipolar), we are in debt up to our eyeballs. I was keeping up with it until a month or so ago. But now the effects of my hospitalizations are starting to trickle in because hubby didn't go to work as he should have. He stayed home with me because he was frightened of something happening. I went to turn my TV on this morning and I have no picture. So now my TV is broken possibly. Unless hubby can fix it. Who knows. There is one bright thing in all of this, I'm hoping. I'm going to go see a pro se lawyer (free) and see if they can help us recover the more than $2000 hubby's ex owes us. Whether they garnish her check or not, I'm going to get it. We went to small claims court over a year ago and there is interest on it built up. I hope no one else is garnishing her check or we'll have to wait in line. She is such a horrible woman. I don't understand why karma hasn't hit her yet. I don't understand how hubby and I can continue to have things go wrong. We are good, understanding, church going people. We are doing everything we are supposed to do. We are getting prepared to go through the temple and be sealed to each other. We are trying to get the sealing between Hagatha and hubby cancelled. Why would he want to spend eternity with her when they don't want to be together here on earth. Our Bishop has to contact her through a certified letter that Louis wants a cancellation. Somehow, she'll put a kink in that too. When it rains it pours and I don't understand why. I don't understand why there is no justice. I'm really at a loss. I keep crying about everything and can't stop. What do I do, where do I turn? I'm lost.
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   Posted 2/14/2007 11:00 AM (GMT -7)   
What was the outcome of the pill situation hun and I wish this woman out of your life and hoping you can recoup some of monies
Please let us know what is happening k
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   Posted 2/14/2007 12:22 PM (GMT -7)   
Keep telling yourself "What goes around, comes around". The Ex will get what is her due!

Good luck with the lawyer and getting your money back.


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   Posted 2/14/2007 3:59 PM (GMT -7)   
Many hugs to you Chelle! I'm sorry this woman is such a thorn in your side. I can understand about the money issues, we have them too and they drag me down.

I hope it works out for you! Keep us posted. Many thoughts and prayers being sent your way.

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   Posted 2/14/2007 6:40 PM (GMT -7)   
i certainly believe in the "when it rains it pours" business. i have had the roughest two years of my life. and just in the last two weeks i was in a car accident, got a speeding ticket, got the flu and just found out today that a spot in my eye that just showed up yesterday and hasn't gone away yet may be central serous retinopathy. it usually goes away on its own, but it can take months. it's almost like a curse was put on me recently. and i won't even get into my financial situation. i don't know what to tell you. except that you're not alone.

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   Posted 2/14/2007 7:28 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry to hear about your troubles.  Praying everything turns around for you.  Try to remember the tale of Job and keep your faith in the lord. 

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   Posted 2/15/2007 6:40 AM (GMT -7)   

Hello Chell

Honey I'm so happy to hear your ok I was getting worried about you. As for your husbands ex I wish I could make her go away but look at it this have something she will never have again and that's the love of your husband. Together you and him will get thru all of this so hang in there hun God knows what he is doing.

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