There is NO judgement here at all only support
I had problems with my ex he is diabetic and I have crohns sooooo to make a long story short yes he had problems with having erections YET never once did it ever cross my mind to go lay with another man
I am a firm believer in Monogamy and I have not slept with another man since we have seperated ....
I cant and wont just in case down the line we reconcile
It was my crohns and me that pushed him away I felt I was making him live in my hell as well and never understood just how much he loved me and was worried for me ....I have other illnesses as well that I dont bring here
I feel that u need to try a " toy" or SOMETHING " other than laying with another man
In hindsight if you were to do that how would you honestly feel
PLEASE dont think I am putting you down hun I just feel you need some help and more importantly SUPPORT.........
Stay with us and no need for embarrassment here ok
Post and let us know what is goiing on please
Take care and really do some serious Soul searching on this please......LYN
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