Have you felt that a person is just too much hard work?
My Sil (brothers girlfriend) is a nightmare we used to be friends and then she got with my brother. We are still friends but I can say hand on heart that I never really knew her at all.
She makes me nervous as I never know if she will go off on one & it makes me anxious.
I am never going to be able to get away from her am I? She will always be around.
She overreacts to everything and turns every mole hill into a mountain.
she can't stand to see anyone (including her own family) to be happy and doing well.
Spending time with her is like walking on eggshells.
Oh god I know I am just ranting but honestly she really does make me feel as if I am drowning.
I think she is jealous of me (she has no reason to be) she just needs to be the best at everything, have the best of everything, it all has to go her way or by god does she make life a misery for everyone until life is just how she wants it.I cant speak to my brother about anything as he tells her everything, infact, I think he is scared not to tell her.
I dont even know what i want to achieve by posting this I just want to get it off my chest. I have spoken to H about this and he just says "oh tell her $**"&%£" not the most helpful of answers but he does not like her.
She does not believe I ever had PND, even though I was fully diagnosed by my Dr & she does not believe I suffer with anxiety
I feel as though everytime I speak to her I have to watch what I say & the tone in which I say it to save her taking offence.
What can I do? Thank you so much for reading