Every parent feels as you do hun and sometimes it is not possible at the time to give them eveything but I truly believe that
The best thing you can give your child is YOUR TIME AND LOVE
NOw as for material things there are goodwill or second hand stores Churches will help you out I am sure .......
DO NOT FEEL GUILTY.......you are doing the best you can and at least your B/F is not just laying about
the house I am glad for that and so should you be
Can you sew at all?? If you are able there are so many easy patterns out there to make childrens and adult clothing ...
I did all my sons babay stuff cuz I love to sew and went on a preggars rampage lol to get it all done
Be proud of the fact you have come here and ASKED you will never be judged and this is a great place for ideas to be thrown at you ya know
YOU dont have to listen to all of them but some might help you out ........
Desserts can be bought and made very cheaply as well
Does your son like Peanut Butter??
There is a very good recipe that calls for a cup of peanut butter a cup of sugar and one egg ...mix all together and bake at 350 for 6 8 minutes
Then you have some nice soft PB
Cake mixes can be bought and you can add things from the recipe
Jello ..........little jeelo pops work well and kids love em
Even taking juice and freexing it like ice cubes or popsicles is alot cheaper to do .......
Hoping you stick around and get the support you so deserve ...I am sure Kitt who has GK's and kids will have some ideas too as well as many other moms dads and Grandparents
Get son involved in helping you ......
I started out a long time ago with making my daughter an Easter bunny cake and it took 3 round cakes to start
Use one for body
One for head and
Take a cup or small glass and put in centre of 3rd cake to get the tail and the use
The rest to make ears for the bunny get some red licorice use for whiskers and smarties for eyes ect ......
Your son thinks the sun rises cause of you and sets cuz of you they love us unconditionally hun so just do the best you can and not feel bad for what you cannot do at this time
I am proud of you for coming here and asking this .........Email me if you would like info under my name at side ..... LYN
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