Emotional blackmail is never pleasant, is it? That's exactly what your parents are doing to you now, and I'd about bet money that's how they've always operated with you. They know when they say, "Jump!" you will respond with, 'How high?"
Your first priority is you and your husband. Your own family. Time to stand on your own feet and make the decisions that are right for you and your marriage. Holding on to the expectation that your parents are going to suddenly support you in defying their wishes is a useless exercise. Something tells me the pressure will get worse before it gets better.
You have done everything right, and nothing wrong. You made the decision to move and respect your husband's and your own wishes instead of your parents. Stick to your guns! You are an adult. Give yourself permission to act like one and live the life YOU want to live. I can understand how tempting it must be to succumb to the manipulations, but you can't fall for it.
Let's run this thing out to the end. What's the worst thing that could possibly happen by defying your parents? Will they not speak to you again? Will the pressure get worse and worse? Will you allow them to spin you up again and possibly wreck your marriage? Start thinking now about how to deal with some of the things that might happen. Lean on your husband for support and make a plan. You have nothing to lose but your own freedom. Don't let someone else, even your parents, steal your joy in life.