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   Posted 9/1/2007 11:16 PM (GMT -6)   
i start getting nervous and panicky when someone approachs me but i don't if i approach them, go figure

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   Posted 9/2/2007 2:34 PM (GMT -6)   


Not sure what to tell you there. People are all around you when your out in public, walking down the street, in the shopping malls, restaurants etc. How do you decide if your approaching them or they are approaching you?

In a restaurant the waitress approaches you, does that bother you too?

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   Posted 9/2/2007 4:11 PM (GMT -6)   
i mean like i am the one approachs them to talk i don't get nervous but if someone comes up and talks to me i get nervous i used to not did this i don't why i am having anxiety so bad, i always have been kinda shy around certain people , but i didn't have anxiety this bad,


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   Posted 9/2/2007 4:23 PM (GMT -6)   
I am the opposite, I actually have lots of conversations with people in the public places.  Whether they approach me or I approach them, it does not bother me. When I was younger and I used to be terrified of people in public areas.  But my anxiety with dealing with people went away with time.  I wish I had something to help you with your anxiety of people approaching you.  One way that might help is if you are being approached think of then as a friend rather than your enemy.  Most people keep to themselves, and won't even bother you.
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