A beautiful Baby .....congrats to you and your fiance........it is so much joy as they grow BUT right now and down the line as Kitt said there will those anxiety times
Being a Parent is a Hard but rewarding role in your life one that you will now be for the rest of your life
Unlike other jobs or situations you can not call in sick lol or say nope I dont want to do this today do it tomorrow
IT dont work that way ......and you will be sooooo rewarded believe me
I just sat on the couch this am and watched my lil baby girl off to High school with alligator tears running down my face and my heart clenched in a vise like no other ....I cannot be there to protect her ya know I have to let her be on her own deal with all the new changes in HER life and she will have anxiety today has had for last few days but we have come closer together and we have talked about
things like when I went to school ( dinosaurs (sp) still roamed lol) and all I went thru the changes ect .....it has been a long but very warm and beautiful road her and I have shared since she was born and I was so like you
I had pains and I was on Valium ...Cait was also colicky and believe me that is Hades to deal with eh Kitt .......
You are going to be okay hun you really are we are here to talk to and you betcha each new mom had or has gone thru this some more than others but still..........
As long as the valium help then take them does the pains stop when you do take the valium?
You are not "Drugged" with this so that you are not capable of looking after your beautiful lil angel but you are being helped to relax and try not to be anxious around her
They do sense it I am sure most will agree with me here about
I know my Cait sensed every mood and how I was when she was tiny and growing up still does
She can walk in and have one look at me and know if I am sick or if there is something wrong thats the BOND you have the beautiful bond that will take you to places you will never want to leave at times and other times can hurt you like nothing else can ...........MOM ......it is a word so full of titles and meanings and so full of JUST EVERYTHING.........It is the best word to hear IMHO
I may be a bit more emotional today lol can you tell .........
I honestly think you are going to be a great Mom and you will be fine as long as you are able to come and get some support when YOU feel you need it or help those out that might need it ......
NO worries you definitely are not alone in this one sweetie ...........
A gentle hugg for that sweet lil babe plz........LYN
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