I was a bit like this with a" wonderful loving do anything in the world for me man" and it was hard for me to stop having the a/p attacks and letting him "IN" to the real me ....I had very bad childhood as well ....BUT .....I have learnt like Debaser has said he could not be my therapist .....first he doesnt have this Disorder secondly it would be dysfuctional as posted ..........I do all kinds of self help techniques and rarely touch my benzo's now ....only when needed.........and I have come along way with the ppl like Debaser and Lil sis at my side ........
Support is tantamount and I really hope she will come here
I had to learn to let him in and give him the love I really and honestly did have for him and finally I was able to see the light and that no matter what HE DID love me for me and my a/p and all other illnesses I have been going thru and my A/P episodes and OCD
You have also been given great info and input from Kitt and Debaser ........
I do applaud you and your support and love for her .......BUT she has to own her A/P and FIGHT the fight ...........then it will be a heck of alot better for all I am sure of it
I like the idea of her coming here and finding the SUPPORT and understanding that we have here within our members ........
I am sure she will balk at the idea at first but perhaps just leave the HW name and such right near puter and see if she will come to it on her own after you mention it .......even if it may take her a couple of days ya know ......she might just need to vent and tell us that do understand what is going on
I do hope you will also stick around and get support as well...........
Kudos for you loving her as you do ...........
Be well and
STAY WITH US............LYN
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