I see you have not posted since 2006, welcome back and I am Kitt. I agree with you people do not understand and to just ask questions to put people down is unkind.
You always have the right to be assertive and just state you prefer not to discuss the subject.
Take care and keep posting.
Moderator Anxiety ~ Panic Disorders
*~* Not a mental health professional at all *~*
Dx: Anxiety/Panic, Depression
"If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can’t accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.”