I have a couple questions about
this, as I do have a myspace account, and know what it's all about
First of all, you say she is 17...how old is your boyfriend?
Does he hide any aspect of their friendship from you? Do you see all the messages, or is he secrative about
How long have you been with your boyfriend?
A lot of people have insecurities in relationships, and often times, it's because of ones own insecurities about
themselves...are you secure in yourself?
I think you should tell your boyfriend that this myspace friendship is bothersome to you. Explain to him that you feel she may be liking him a bit too much, and it just makes you uneasy. You have to be able to talk in any relationship for it to work, and you also have to be able to trust.
Aside from this myspace thing...do you trust your boyfriend?
Don't argue with him about
it, as that will make things worse. Just sit him donw, and explain to him what you are feeling.
As Lyn said though, many couples have friends outside the relationship that are of the opposite sex.
Could you become friends with this girl as well? Would that make you more comfortable?
I know my thoughts are all over the place...and I am sorry, I just had a lot to say about
I hope everything works out for you sweetie!
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