Hey, a break up is always hard even if it's your decision and I guess it's about finding a new way of being that makes you happy. It feels important to me that you work out who you are in relation to...
I think sometimes it's easy to get in to a negative cycle of not being motivated, I find it best to try and keep the momentum going a little bit...
Hey, I feel in such a bad depression at the moment, I'm going to go back to the doctors for meds and I really feel like I have nowhere to turn at the moment and I don't know what to do anymore. My...
Christi *hugs* I hope your feeling better than when you wrote your message. Try and see it as your teachers loss that she doesn't get to have a great person like you in her life. She is the one who's...
John, seems to me like you need to take a deep breath and think about what you want from your life, your relationships and yourself etc. I guess you are moving forward andwith regards to this girl -...
Hi Guys, It's' been such a long time since I have been on here, how are you all? Last time I posted, I had just split up with my boyfriend and was feeling really down about it. I'm still not...
Hi Everyone, After splitting with my ex who I loved a lot about a month ago, I am struggeling to get past it and move forward. I have been on a couple of dates and spent a lot of time with my...
1. thoughtful 2. strong willed 3. talkative and friendly....
So I am feeling stronger today and I am looking for the positives and trying to cheer myself up. So what do you guys do to cheer yourselves up when you are feeling sad??!! how do you take your mind...
compassion stiiipvyto - what we should all hope to feel....
I am struggeling so much at the minute, I am so restless and I don't know what to do with myself. I miss him so much and it has only been a couple of days. I am being ridiculous and pathetic!...
I like the same sort of music as Ben really - the killers are my favourite band. But I also love the beatles....
Hi Guys, thanks for your kind responses. Nightwish - it wasn't my decision, thats what hurts so much. I really don't know what to do with myself at the minute, I feel so restless and scared of what...
I haven't been on here much lately, I have been keeping my anxiety and depression in check lately, but today I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I feel like my world is falling apart, all my...
Hi Princess, Sometimes I feel how you feel, paranoid about my relationship - however you shouldn't judge your boyfriend based on previous relationships, Everyone is different. Judge him by what you...
Hey Confusedgirl, Well done on finishing your first year! Yay! I think you need to relax a bit more. Have you ever tried any relaxation techniques? Do you have many female friends? It seems to me...
Hey Akram, That was long!! Anyway it was really good to hear your story. I think that you have come a long way and done so well. Good luck with the job hunting, I hope that something comes up for you...
Kitt, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your family are ok during this sad time. I know your sister has been ill for a while now, so at least she has found some peace and I hope that...
Hey Aurora, I am glad that your son is doing good! and I am glad that your feeling better now too...
Hi Aurora, I don't know if this will help - but can you try & see it from a different perspective - your son has finally taken control and he is now doing what he wants, he's moving forward in...
Hey - Glad to hear that the Pristiq is starting to work!Hopefully the doctors will sort out the other stuff!...
Hey Snowflake, You sound so tired at the minute & like everything is getting on top of you. Can the doctor not give you anything else to help you sleep? I think sometimes when you see a...
Jamiee, I think sometimes if someone is depressed it can rub off on those around us. Sometimes if I'm in a depressive phase my boyfriend will say that I bring him down somewhat too. It isn't that he...
Christi, Sometimes when I read your posts you remind me a little of myself when I was your age. You are such a thinker. I think maybe thats what makes you feel a little disconnected, because you are...
I have been enjoying Liverpool FC immensly lately!!! Hope they keep it up! I hope that you can find some contentment now Erik, I can be a thinker at times too, and it can get me down, sometimes it's...
Hey Erik, I am doing good thanks, how about you?? Sounds like you have been doing a lot of thinking!! I hope that all is ok with you!...
Hmmm.... It's a hard one, I can totally see where you are coming from - but it's your partner who needs to tell her family that she needs her independance, she needs to tell them straight. If it...
Hi Jamiee, Why do your girlfriends family dislike you so much? I didn't understand that part of your post? What you went through when your girlfriend died 4 years ago sounds really hard....
So everything is going really well for me right now! I have absolutely no reason to not be happy & I feel happy a lot of the time, but sometimes a discontentedness creeps in for no reason - why...
Hi Akram, Why don't you try setting yourself small goals & then start working towards them, then you don't have to look at the big goals which might seem to intimidating?...
Hey Kitt, I'm sorry that your feeling sad & angry, tho I think you have every right to feel that way! Try not to let it get to you too much! I think you have done so much for your sister, more than a...
Wish, try not to be so hard on yourself, these things happen sometimes & I'm sure that you SO will see that aswell! Hopefully!! lol! Could you maybe look after other people's children whilst...
Hi Chelsi, Maybe try & just let things go over your head a bit more. I know thats really hard to do, but the more you get stressed about it, the more you will make mistakes - etc - its a viscious...
Hey Kitt, I think Karen is right, you should maybe try & take some time out for yourself, a bit of pampering or a massage! Try to concentrate on making yourself feel good. and I think your more than...
Hi Serutan, I was thinking that whilst you look for a job, maybe you could try some volunteering, this would help you to get out of the house and take your mind of things & make you feel like...
Hi Chelsi, I'm not really sure what to say here, as I don't know enough about your employer or employment laws where you are - over here in the UK, your employer couldn't let you go without first...
Hi Catherine, I think the best thing to do is to try & take one day at a time & stay in the moment, stop thinking about the "what if's" and whats going to happen tomorrow, just think about what is...
Kitt - I am sorry to hear that your sister isn't doing too good right now, I am thinking about you both & your family....
Snowflake, Sorry to hear your news, and hopefully there will be an alternative to amputation. I have my fingers crossed for you....
Hi Griffin, It must be hard being away from your family & friends, could you maybe start some sort of class or activity that would allow you to meet new people?...
Eddie, It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants, I think the space of you going away will do you both some good. It will give her a chance to think about how she really feels....
Hi Kitt, It sounds like you have a lot going on right now & I am sorry that you aren't feeling too good! I hope that all goes well with your sisters surgery, I am thinking about you both....
tbh I don't get insecure about the way I look, I worry more about f people actually like me, and I always think the people secretly don't like me that much!...
I saw this on the news this morning - It is really sad, I am thinking today about the families of all those involved & hoping that they can come through this!...
thanks kitt & akram - n thanks kitt for sorting the link, i'm not very technical, lol...
Things are going great for me at the minute, I'm enjoying my job better & me & my boyfriend finally seem to be moving forward. Yet I am always creating problems in my head - like for example...
http://i659.photobucket.com/albums/uu315/LaDolceVita2/pic.jpg Not sure if If this will work I linked it for you........just click below. Kitt /community/emoticons/smile.gif...
I think even if you were a bit full on - do you really want to be with a guy who punishes you for worrying about him? If he felt you were texting too much or whatever all he needed to do was ask for...
Hey Erik, Glad to hear that you are enjoying your job, that is really good news. About feeling uncomfortable on the coach ride - why don't you try reading a book or listening to some music, it might...
Hi Confusedgirl, I'm not being rude - but why do you still want this guy to call you? he's ignored you for 5 days - to me that would most definitly mean that he isn't worth bothering with - Unless he...