First off , hit your husband over the head with a frying pan! Second...Laugh, find a reason to laugh..... Third..Pick up a telephone book and start dialing, call everyone and anyone that will listen,...
Chris, I am a parent that lost my son on Feb 24, 2005. Michael was 19 at the time of his death and left behind his sister who at the time was 15. Now here we are 14 months later, she's 17 and he...
You are 16, and your family (like everyone else's) is screwed up. AND ther eis nothing wrong with you. I can promise you that. Please read the following message, I wrote this to my step daughter who...
Nate, You know you don't have to stop loving her, you just have to move forward. If you quit associating the two then you will see the future. I know that sounds complicated but here is the long...
Keep talking..... I lost my son in Feb of 2005 and just keep talking, morn and grieve all you want but talk about it too and remember the good times you had as well as the bad times. A loss of a...
(((HUGS))) I missed everyone :)...
Nobody is ever alone, Gaia, Please talk to someone, any one that will listen and remember that you have been brought here for a reason, if none other than to make one person smile a day. You make a...
WOW-- I'm SO SO SO Sorry, I hope that I wasn't one that made anyone feel neglected. I had to make some adjustments in my life and I took on a whole new career as of July 5th. July 3rd was my 1 year...
Hi Everyone, I hope that as you all read this you can find a smile for me and Michael. I amstill here and still reading trying to keep up with everyone. I don't get much of a chance to respond but I...
All that and you are just 17 Seems like you are derpressed because you didnt have much of a childhood. Do you go to counseling of any type? If not I would hope that you would want someone to talk to...
PattyCake, I went through the exact same thing a few years back when my mom went through her second divorce. GOD it was awful and honey I really understand where you are comming from. The best advise...
Bumping this up, looks like a few new people could use some encouragement...
sk8, I know exactaly how you are feeling, On Feburary 24th 2005 my 19 year old son took his own life. Although you at least underwstood that your husband was suffering from depression and just...
From experience, I would rather them talk about this subject, once a person stops talking then there is a serious problem, usually death....
Kyle, Please contact me at my email address lizabuczek@hotmail.com I would like to help you through this before things get to an extreme that you cant handle Liza...
Don't feel guilty that you are sad, its a normal human emotion, Talk to someone, even if you dont think they want to talk to you, they do. If you feel you cant talk, write it down and leave the...
Believe me I have my moments of weakness too. I am on several meducations right now to help me deal with the death of my son. But I do have a husband and a daughter that still need me, even when I am...
Limsy, Start with trying to find one thing to smile about a day. It works for me. When you can do that everyday for a week then start talking to your loved ones , even if they are departed, I talk to...
Limsy, We all strive to find happiness. It's harder for some of us to do so than others, that's a no brainer. I personally try to start with the little things and work my way to the bigger things. I...
http://www.mem.com/display/Biography.asp?id=737348 This is my Baby Boy, and I miss him so much , that I can't figure out how I am going ot live through the night without him. He took his own life...