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Red09

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Red09
Profile Created
12/7/2003 7:55 PM
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Total Posts
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Last 50 Posts

UTI/bladder infection

Not sure if this is in the right section. Yesterday I went to my family Dr and got antibotics, I have an UTI..Never had this before so I was wondering if those who have had this can help me out...

7/10/2009 7:02 PM

Irritable Bowel Syndrome
Psychologist wont get out of my head

Are you talking about missing her as your T or missing her in an emotional way, like you have feelings for her? Some people can become too emotionally attached to their therapists and that's not...

7/4/2009 6:46 PM

Depression
Dealing with effects of cancer treatment

Glad to hear you're in remission! All I can tell you, take each day as it comes. When having a bad day, accept it just as that - A bad day. Just know that there will be many good days so you won't...

6/21/2009 8:45 AM

Depression
Anyone get their anxiety set off when not feeling well

Illnesses brings on anxiety to begin with, so when you suffer from an anxiety disorder, it just makes it worse! The past few days I've been having symptoms of migraines, feeling yucky and dizzy,...

6/10/2009 10:35 AM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
Fevers with migraines

Just wondering how normal it is to have low grade fevers during a migraine? In the past few months I've been having the fevers which last about 2 weeks, sometimes get the flashes of light (aura) but...

2/24/2009 1:30 PM

Migraine Headache
HIV TEST ANXIETY

Good reply Maz. This is why you need to think about talking to a therapist about this, but the person has to be one who specializes in marriage counselling because most other therapists will tell you...

1/6/2009 9:05 AM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
HIV TEST ANXIETY

The reason why I suggested it is because someone else might tell her. Like the other woman. Don't want to scare you but there is always that chance. I hope you aren't talking to the ow anymore and...

1/5/2009 2:18 PM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
HIV TEST ANXIETY

You may have this anxiety for a long time, and it may not only be about the blood tests..Have you thought about telling your girlfriend the truth? It may relieve some of your stress and guilt you've...

1/5/2009 12:32 PM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
new member depressed with marriage

You need to 'date' your wife again! Bring her home flowers, make her feel special and loved.. Trust me, she is NOT going to have sex with you if you demand it from her! Each of you need to really...

1/1/2009 6:30 PM

Depression
Having to face my absolute worst fear...help!

sleep dentistry? that sounds awesome! i must ask my dentist what the go is- i always demand happy gas and he knows im panicky and he does his best to calm me. Maz XX the fear of it is worse than the...

1/1/2009 6:20 PM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
Having to face my absolute worst fear...help!

I have dental phobia and have most of my life thanks to having an awful dentist when I was a kid. Last summer I had to have major work done as I only go when my teeth bother me, so the dentist sent...

12/28/2008 6:18 PM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
Family found out im in therapy. Very mad.

Not sure how old you are, but this is your life, not your parents life! Just tell them to chill out, that you're doing counselling to FIX yourself, not harm yourself. Make a joke of it and tell them...

12/23/2008 3:45 PM

Depression
Diverticulitis -Hope this is in the right section-

Thanks gang. I did discuss all this with him and told him that everything he does now IS preventative action so he won't have any attacks in the future. What really frustrates me is the place he had...

12/9/2008 9:15 AM

Crohn's Disease
Diverticulitis -Hope this is in the right section-

Thanks for the replies. He hasn't had any attacks, infact the Dr who did the procedure just said to increase his fibre and drink alot of water. He didn't give us any indication on how bad this was,...

11/29/2008 12:09 PM

Crohn's Disease
Diverticulitis -Hope this is in the right section-

Just wondering if anyone here suffers from or knows someone who suffers from Diverticulitis and is willing to share their experiences with this? My h was diagnosed not too long ago with this, it...

11/20/2008 3:05 PM

Crohn's Disease
New pregnancy... possible abortion

I rarely post here anymore, but reading your post, I had to reply. Somehow they WILL manage. They can be wise about spending money and change their lifestyle abit. Part of what we do when kids come...

8/15/2008 7:42 AM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
Living with Depressed Spouse

Do you and your husband have children? How long has been depressed? Try your best to get him into counselling. Be involved and go with him, physically take him to the therapist if need be. As hard as...

6/9/2008 9:35 AM

Depression
New member!

Check out marriage builders (google it) and surviving infidelity....

Today 8:44 AM

Depression
New member!

Viper, you need to completely go no contact with the other woman and make it clear you want nothing to do with her. That is, if you are willing to do everything possible to make it right again with...

2/26/2008 4:06 PM

Depression
Depression After Loss of Spouse

Sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. Have you thought about grief counseling? Ask friends to help you shop, or see if there's a grocery store that delivers, buy fresh fruit, salads and even...

2/25/2008 6:16 PM

Depression
Throbbing in Right Side of Head

Change your diet to a more healthier one, cut down on the smoking and break up your time infront of the computer, go for a walk, do some stretches. And, drink alot of water! Try to have a regular...

1/17/2008 7:44 PM

Migraine Headache
what is causing these 24/7 headaches?

Are you by chance on the birth control pill? If so, you might want to stop taking it. I went off the pill due to major bad migraines, similar to what you are describing. Any migraines I get now are...

1/17/2008 7:40 PM

Migraine Headache
Anyone? Please help

You need help, so don't be afraid to call a suicide hotline or 911. I am sorry that you are feeling so down, I hope tomorrow is a better day. Do you have a therapist you can talk to? Do your parents...

1/9/2008 7:57 PM

Depression
Panic at the supermarket yesterday

Try shopping at your smaller local grocery shops, like a butcher and a fruit market. This will help with your anxiety and not make you feel so overwhelmed when shopping....

1/6/2008 3:54 PM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
I don't want a divorce, but I need someone new

Maybe if you really laid it out on the line with your wife in a sense that she HAS to go to therapy again, even if you have to take her there yourself, do it. She needs help with the depression, not...

1/3/2008 9:01 PM

Depression
I don't want a divorce, but I need someone new

Cheating on your wife is not the right thing to do because eventually someone will get hurt. Cheating on your wife will only create more drama and problems in your life. Your counselor shouldn't be...

1/3/2008 8:08 PM

Depression
Why Am I So Jealous?

Are you seeing a therapist? If not, you might want to consider seeing someone get past your jealously issues. Maybe it's something from your childhood, competition with a sibling, or your parents...

11/28/2007 7:13 PM

Depression
Cures for Migraines the Nautral Way

This is a very helpful post, thanks for putting up here!...

10/30/2007 10:10 AM

Migraine Headache
Dealing with boyfriend's depression

Learn as much as you can about depression and understand that any negative thoughts, feelings, outbursts, if he treats you badly, is rude or verbally abusive to you IS NOT YOUR FAULT and you haven't...

8/26/2007 4:46 PM

Depression
Singer69 - Seeking help for depressed wife

Rick, hang in there and don't give up on her. All you can do is encourage her and hopefully one day she will seek some therapy to talk about her issues. Keeping it inside is the worst thing right...

8/13/2007 9:30 AM

Depression
Natural Help & Depression?

Talk to your Dr about B12 shots. Do yoga daily and walk. Eat well! Lessen your sugar intake, cutdown on carbs (switch to whole wheat pasta or another grain pasta, same with bread, stay away from...

8/10/2007 8:23 AM

Depression
Think I Lost A Friend

I don't post much on HW, old time member, but still read time to time.. Listen to what the others are telling you about your male friend. Maybe in afew days, come back and re-read their advice...It...

8/10/2007 8:09 AM

Depression
Long and short of it... plz help me, help my wife!

You didn't choose this, neither did she. This is the disease that has taken over your wife. Right now she isn't the woman you married - SO DON'T BLAME YOURSELF AT ALL. Her poor judgement, frame of...

6/20/2007 7:35 PM

Depression
Long and short of it... plz help me, help my wife!

I rarely post on this site anymore but I had to reply to your post. Your wife could either be bipolar or she has multiple personality disorder. OR (hate to say it) she's cheating on you. Her sudden...

6/20/2007 6:54 PM

Depression
Depressed Spouse and I want out

Google Depression Fallout. That site will help you alot, has lots of information. Right now your focus has to be on your child. He's so young and doesn't know what is going on. Your wife NEEDS to...

3/15/2007 5:31 PM

Depression
living with a depressed spouse

Sorry to hear that your H has depression. Google depression fallout, there's alot of information there which can help you through what is going on in your life. I know this is hard on you, and the...

Today 12:53 PM

Depression
My love for him still shows, Can’t sleep in night

It's very difficult to be friends with an ex, especially so soon after a breakup. Until your feelings are not as intense and more under control (meaning, what he does/says doesn't affect you, you...

1/20/2007 12:24 PM

Depression
Bowel changes

I'm not sure where to post this, but seeing as I have suffered (sometimes still do) anxiety and panic attacks in the past I guess it's OK to post here. Recently I started having B12 shots due to low...

11/9/2006 9:20 AM

Anxiety & Panic Disorders
Feeling overwhelmed with treatments

By accident I saw you posted in depression forum, so I felt the need to come in here and reply to your post. A close friend of mine recently has finished all her treatments, first it was Chemo, then...

9/4/2006 6:51 PM

Breast Cancer
different perspectives please please

That's great! That other site is just helpful for spouses who are with a depressed partner...Afew of my friends have been on it due to their SO being depressed. I'm glad that you're researching and...

Yesterday 5:02 PM

Depression
different perspectives please please

All I can suggest is, don't give up on him. If he was suffering from Cancer, or some other disease, you wouldn't leave, right? Well, his depression is another kind of illness and he may need you to...

Yesterday 3:07 PM

Depression
I suffer from Depression, plus Panic attacks. I'd like to talk.....

I'm sorry for your loss with your first wife. Can I ask? DO you love your current wife? Or are you thinking maybe you need to end it and move on? All I can say is, don't stay in this marriage if you...

1/14/2006 3:51 PM

Depression
Need Some to Talk to

Your DR told you that after you explained how you were feeling? Get another DR!! You are having thoughts that aren't healthy and you need help. Either by using medication or finding a therapist....

10/5/2005 7:05 AM

Depression
New member-reverse seasonal affective

The extreme cold and extreme heat affects everybody, but even more so with people who suffer from depression and/or anxiety disorders. I have anxiety and I do find this heat makes it worse. I don't...

7/22/2005 6:24 PM

Depression
looking for old friends

Hey Ralph!!! I have seen snohare on afew times, I am not sure if she's posted or not. Click on her name and see what it says in her profile...maybe there's an email address or something in there......

6/13/2005 6:40 PM

Depression
I'm scared...

Ask your family doctor about Cognitive Behaviour Therapy. This therapy is very helpful when one has panic disorder, depression etc. It will really help you, so please make sure to ask your doctor...

6/9/2005 7:26 PM

Depression
I hate myself so much

FN, I am real sorry to hear how down you're feeling. You're not being overdramatic or a typical teen. If you're having problems, and you're expressing most of your reasons, somebody should be...

6/9/2005 7:19 PM

Depression
Firefigher Anxiety

Has he actually said he'd like to separate? Or he is just going through a mini midlife crisis... Either way I do think Marriage councilling will help, and he owes it to you, your daughter and...

6/8/2005 2:14 PM

Depression
THE WEREWOLF SYNDROME

Wolf, first of all, my heart goes out to you. I'm very sorry for your losses. I am glad you are surrounded by your kids. They are your world now. Am glad you posted. Writing is good for the soul,...

6/8/2005 7:01 AM

Depression
Firefigher Anxiety

The EAP is Employee assistance program, which has on the job councilling for any firefighter who is experiencing any sort of post traumatic stress syndrome, or if they go to a call that has some...

6/7/2005 6:09 PM

Depression
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