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Bennie

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Bennie
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11/11/2006 10:12 PM
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Son needs ostomy due to perianal fistulae

Thank you all for your responses. We had my son transferred to another hospital where my daughter's surgeon in (he is head of colorectal surgery there). He scoped my son to see if there was anything...

10/28/2017 11:39 PM

Ostomies
Son needs ostomy due to perianal fistulae

Hi. My son (29 years old) has had Crohn's for 10 years. Most of the time, it was held in check with meds. It has always concentrated by his rectum/anus and he has had some abscesses over the years...

10/22/2017 7:47 PM

Ostomies
Next step - Cimzia?

Hi. My son is 24 and was diagnosed with Crohn's at 19. For the most part, he has kept it under control being on Pentasa and 6-mp. He developed an abcess a month or so ago (he keeps his Crohns' issues...

12/29/2012 3:29 PM

Crohn's Disease
Update on Bratcat

Hi everyone. I check in once in awhile but rarely post. Glad so many are doing well. Hope the rest of you start feeling better soon. Bratcat just had her 3rd yearly pouchoscopy (can't believe it's...

6/23/2011 6:19 PM

Ostomies
post surgery life

So glad to see him doing so well. I remember his early days pre-surgery and just after. Great that he is enjoying life again!...

6/23/2011 6:07 PM

Ostomies
When did you break up with your colon?

My daughter's last straw was having her 3rd big flare in just over a year and missing another 9 weeks of school. That and the fact that she was pretty much at the end of the medicine possibilities...

5/27/2011 8:53 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
J-pouch pros and cons

My daughter had j-pouch surgery when she was 17 years old, the summer between junior and senior year in high school. For her, it was the best decision she made. She had her temporary ostomy for 4...

5/24/2011 10:32 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Bennie…what a difference a year makes!

Cathy, I'm so glad you wrote! And so happy for Dillon! It's wonderful that he can enjoy life again the way he should. I've thought about you and your son often. It's very sweet of you to think of us...

9/13/2010 10:07 PM

Ostomies
Newbie with an ileostomy, need your help!

My daughter would eat a few marshmallows before changing her appliance. Most often, it seemed to slow down her output enough to get everything back on. Of course two years after her reversal, she now...

6/7/2010 10:38 PM

Ostomies
Spoke to Gi depressed also decided I will never go sugery

July 3 will be 2 years since my daughter's j-pouch surgery. Prior to surgery, her doctor did as many tests as possible to make sure she had UC and not Crohn's. This included the camera endoscopy. For...

5/15/2010 11:40 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Not many options left...surgery

My daughter was diagnosed with UC at 15-1/2 at the beginning of her sophomore year of high school. She had 3 major flares in less than 2 years. Each time she was out of school for almost 9 weeks. Her...

4/20/2010 5:03 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Hug someone today!

Kathy, I check in every other day or so but rarely post anymore. You can see by my signature that my kids are doing well. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's death. He was very special on this...

4/14/2010 7:33 PM

Ostomies
mom passed away, I'm sad

Thinking of you at this hard time. Wishing you peace and comfort. Keep warm memories close to your heart right now. Take good care of yourself. You are in my prayers....

4/3/2010 11:37 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
mom passed away, I'm sad

pb4, my prayers and sympathy to you and your family. May your warm memories get you through this tough time. Know we are thinking of you....

3/29/2010 11:36 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
New Year wishes for our absent members

Hi everyone. Happy New Year! Old Hat, how nice of you to think of us (and everyone else). We are doing fairly well. Physically, Bratcat is doing amazing. She finished her first semester of college...

1/8/2010 8:49 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Bennie & Bratcat

Hi everyone. We are here. Thank you for your kind words and thoughts. I've been trying to come on to read how everyone is doing. Jsut haven't had much energy to post. But I am thinking of you all. We...

10/24/2009 11:56 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
bennie

Hi Cathy, thanks for thinking of us. I've been checking the website daily. I just find it easier to be a spectator still. I'm so glad your son is doing well. I hope everything keeps improving....

10/13/2009 8:38 PM

Ostomies
A small chuckle

Bratcat was working on her homework for English tonight. She has to read an article about when you are confronted with comments and jokes that you find derogatory, racial, etc. She has to lead a...

10/13/2009 8:29 PM

Ostomies
OT Please say prayers for my husband

My husband passed away this evening. He died peacefully and I was able to be with him. Thank you all for your prayers and thoughts....

7/27/2009 8:03 PM

Ostomies
OT - need prayers asap

My husband passed away this evening. He died peacefully and I was able to be with him. Thank you all for your prayers and thoughts....

7/27/2009 8:03 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
OT - need prayers asap

Suebear he is only 52. He has high blood pressure and is overweight but no other signs of heart problems. They took him off the paralyzing drug because they weren't getting the twitch results they...

7/19/2009 8:45 AM

Ulcerative Colitis
OT Please say prayers for my husband

I posted the story on the UC forum but my husband had a massive heart attack today. He is stable in the heart department now (his entire right side of the heart was clogged) but he is in a coma and...

7/19/2009 1:09 AM

Ostomies
OT - need prayers asap

Thank you everyone. The entire right side of his heart was completely blocked. They did a catheter and that is now cleared. He is in CICU still in a coma. We don't know how long it was between...

7/19/2009 1:04 AM

Ulcerative Colitis
OT - need prayers asap

My husband had a massive heart attack today. He came through heart surgery, but is still in a coma. They won't know how his brain is until he wakes up. I'm at the hospital now. Please keep him in...

7/18/2009 4:41 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
surgery? mom of 17 year old

Hi Cathy, Bratcat never had any leaking problems. She did have some discharge when she had her ostomy (it is expected because it is still an active part of the body). But she only pooped from her...

7/16/2009 10:18 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
trying to decide if i want a j-pouch.

My daughter had the j-pouch surgeries last year. For her, it was the best decision. She did try some of the harder-hitting drugs (which in the beginning we swore she wouldn't ever try). Unfortunately...

7/10/2009 6:37 PM

Ostomies
Incredible new cleaning product found at hospital - changing my life?

So glad you found something that makes life just a bit easier. And great that there was an ostomy nurse to pass this great information on to you!...

7/9/2009 7:26 PM

Ostomies
Had my final surgery for my Crohn's Disease 25 years ago

Happy birthday Peggy and stoma! Bratcat just had the one year anniversary of her step 1 surgery (July 3). What a glorious reason to celebrate!...

7/9/2009 7:24 PM

Ostomies
I am going home next week to home wife and unfortunately MIL

Hi Bob, first of all I am glad to hear surgery went as well as expected and that you are on the mend! You must bring your minister friend in again on this situation. He did offer after all. I think...

7/9/2009 7:23 PM

Ostomies
Can I hear a WHOO WHOO!!!???!!!

Whoo Whooo!! So glad this was a good holiday for you! One year ago Bratcat was just out of surgery (July 3). What a difference a year makes. Enjoy all those little things that make life special! ...

Yesterday 11:36 PM

Ostomies
Why wouldn't you go for surgery!? *rant!!*

My daughter just had the one year anniversary of her surgery (July 3). When she was first diagnosed at 15-1/2, we wouldn't even think about heavy hitting drugs let alone surgery. Three huge flares...

Yesterday 5:16 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Hi everyone--Bennie and Bratcat checking in

Hello all! I read the posts daily and think about everyone all the time. I'm glad many of you are feeling well. I hope those that are struggling for remission find it soon. Bratcat is doing great....

6/26/2009 9:09 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
OT - maybe? Toe cramps

Don't know how true it is but my mom always said when it happened she knew she needed more protein in her diet. That was her cue to have steak! I know when I have gotten it, if I eat red meat, it...

6/18/2009 7:55 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Pissed off my GI....pardon the expression

First of all, if they have any issues with you, they should address it face to face rather than by a letter. Seems to me that you would be better off finding a new GI. I cannot imagine having a...

6/3/2009 10:08 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
surgery? mom of 17 year old

Bratcat is doing great. She never loved her ostomy but learned to live with it for the 4 months she had it. She called her colon Annie Moore (as in "is there any more that has to come out") and then...

5/29/2009 9:25 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
surgery? mom of 17 year old

mamaluke and collicat, I've been following this thread the past few weeks and thinking of both of you and your sons. Mamaluke, I am glad your son is starting to feel the positive effects of surgery....

5/28/2009 10:24 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Has anyone heard lately from Shrek?

I think he could use the support of all his friends from the UC forum!...

5/24/2009 4:25 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Any support groups for spouses????

I don't know of any online support groups for family members but you (or your spouse) can always vent on here! I am the mom of IBD children and this forum has been a godsend to me. I can ask lots of...

5/23/2009 7:22 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Yay! (Off-topic)

Congratulations on this wonderful milestone! Enjoy the great feeling of a terrific accomplishment....

5/22/2009 6:23 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
OT - Hurray!

Fabulous news, Carol! Congrats to your hubby...

5/22/2009 6:21 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
For Fun - You Know you have UC When-

Can I join the "fun"? You know your child has UC (or Crohns) when... you forget that family, friends, and acquaintances may get grossed out when you talk about your child's BMs (with all the details...

5/22/2009 6:19 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Surgery day!

Here's to a speedy healthy recovery! May you start to feel better very soon....

5/22/2009 6:06 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Immodium question

Can taking immodium long term cause any problems? My son has Crohns (I know this is the UC forum but I love you guys so much). It's pretty much under control except for the morning bathroom routine...

5/19/2009 8:35 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
I am having some emotional moments - I think my family isn't quite helping other than wife

Bob, ((hugs))! I'm sure in her own crazy way, your MIL thinks she is being helpful. In reality, she is hindering your emotional healing (which is a big part of major surgery). You mentioned that she...

5/18/2009 3:39 PM

Ostomies
Wondering what ileostomy recovery is like?

How long was your hospital stay? What items should I take to the hospital with me? Undies that you don't mind ruining (don't buy new pretty underwear that you love). Loose clothing. Bratcat didn't...

5/10/2009 11:36 AM

Ostomies
I miss being a "normal" teen

Bella, sorry you had to miss your prom. It is one of those high school rituals that many want to go to (but over the years generally remember it wasn't as spectacular as they remembered lol)....

5/10/2009 11:17 AM

Ostomies
surgery? mom of 17 year old

Collicat, you are right, our children's stories are very similar! And it stinks! You may want to think about changing his diet as kim123 said. We never really tried that completely with Bratcat....

5/9/2009 9:20 AM

Ulcerative Colitis
Quitting a sport (temporarily)...

jays_fan, does your coach (and the school) know about your UC? One of the first things we did when my daughter got sick was to let them know. She's not on any sports teams but very involved in the...

5/6/2009 6:15 AM

Ulcerative Colitis
surgery for colitis - who can share their expereinces?

My daughter had surgery (step 1) last July. Step 2 was in November. For her, it was the best decision. She had her first flare in the fall of 2006 (she was 15-1/2 years old). She had 2 more flares...

5/5/2009 3:46 PM

Ulcerative Colitis
Hello All, Back from the hospital - 10 days total in the place

Bob, I'm so glad, for the most part, you are doing well! First of all, make sure your MIL goes home ASAP! That alone will be a great healing process for you. If your wife needs help around the house,...

5/1/2009 10:30 AM

Ostomies
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