sherry- A Treatment Plan and a good oncologist will empower you tremendously, and you sound like you have found that very thing. GOOD FOR YOU! You bake those cookies, and forget about this for a little while....you have a great attitude and that will help you so much at a time like this! Enjoy your children (4 chlidren? whew! i, having 3, admire anyone with more! ha) and check back with us soon.
Sherry, I was going to say just what Stef said...about being so empowered by having information and a plan. I cried every day for a week, until I met with my surgeon for the path report. When I left there, I had a plan to see the onc and rad onc, plan to get various tests and blood work done and made a 2nd opinion appointment. Having all that, I felt totally in control and it made my situation better.