CFS can come and go in cycles.
I've had it for 10-11 years... and while it's never totally gone away... there's times I feel much worse than others.
Some people never feel relief...
Some people only have mild cases their whole life...
Some people have severe cases their whole life...
Some people "cure" and it goes away and they never have it come back...
Mine personally has never gone into remission... for the past 10-11 years... but like I said there's days I feel so bad I can't get out of bed... depends.
Stress from all the things I've been reading is a trigger for it to either "come back" if you're in remission, or make it worse... and boy oh boy do I ever know how that is.
The hardest part I think is that people don't and can't really understand what you're going through unless they go through it themselves. The thing to keep in mind, is to not EXPECT anyone to understand what it's like. It's hard for people to accept also because they're so misinformed about
it. My mom didn't understand or accept it period... and just thought I was being lazy or making excuses. "Just get more sleep"... "Just get up early everyday and get used to it it'll help"... blah blah blah. She sorta has a better understanding since I printed out my blog for her to read shortly after my official diagnosis (which wasn't until this recent Feb 24th).
If it might help those around you understand better, feel free to show my blog to them. It might help for them to read about
someone else that has to live with it to understand more.
www.myspace.com/fallenangel311
The blog is titled something like "PLEASE READ!!! (Understanding...)"
Might be a long shot... but it may just help.
Hugs,
Nikki
I have chronic fatigue syndrome, anxiety (at this current moment), and some minor abdominal pain which still hasn't been figured out yet... need a break from all the testing ;)
Medications:
CFS: Provigil 200mg, once a day
Anxiety: Lorazepam .5 or 1mg 3xs a day or as needed