Hi Maryann,
I am seeing a lot of peer pressure going on through reading your posts. Her grades have dropped, you said that she was getting D's. I wonder if she is cutting because her friends are. I think that the counseling is a good idea and that you are doing everything humanly possible to help her.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers. I think that with the help of the counselor she will come around.
Luv and hugs,
Karen
fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, clinically depressed and allergies