Kathy
MK, Kathy and I are related through a marriage. Her brother married my sister. And I know him as Steve and she and the rest of their family calls him Howie. Have yet to be told why.
Kathy, Paula mentioned to me about him going out but no time was said. I had told him earlier that he needed to. The one thing that bugged me big time while I was going through my chemo was my family called but only my parents came to see me during that time. It would have been nice to see some of them. My oldest sister Julie was coming out at my one year mark when I was going to have reconstruction but her husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer at that time.
My masectomy was easier then my lumpectomy too. Funny isn't it. Maybe the drugs were better for it.
Take care and rest.
Kathy